The mean — the everyday "average" — is the total shared out equally. Add up all
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There is a vivid way to picture the mean. Lay the data out as equal weights on a ruler. The mean is the exact spot where the ruler balances — the values pulling from the left and the values pulling from the right cancel out. That is why a single far-away value tips the balance so much: the mean slides toward it to keep the ruler level.
Drag the orange point below. Watch the balance line — the mean — chase it. Push the point to an extreme and the mean follows, because every value gets an equal vote.