A fraction is what you get when you take a whole and split it into equal parts, then keep some of them. The word "equal" is the heart of it: the pieces must all be the same size, or it isn't a fair fraction.
We write a fraction as one number stacked over another:
The bottom number,
Splitting a whole into equal parts is really just
Watch a whole bar get split into equal parts, then some of them shaded. The denominator counts the slices the bar is cut into; the numerator counts the shaded slices. Step through it.
Sal Khan splits up wholes into equal pieces to build fractions from scratch.